Quote Attic: The Writer

Many of you collect quotes like I do. Here are a few conversation starters. Tell me which quote speaks to you personally:

“A writer’s job is to tell the truth.” ~ Andy Rooney

“And by the way, everything in life is writable about if you have the outgoing guts to do it, and the imagination to improvise. The worst enemy to creativity is self-doubt.” ~ Sylvia Plath

“In utter loneliness a writer tries to explain the inexplicable.” ~ John Steinbeck

“No tears in the writer, no tears in the reader. No surprise in the writer, no surprise in the reader.” ~ Robert Frost

“Every secret of a writer’s soul, every experience of his life, every quality of his mind is written large in his works.” ~ Virginia Woolf

“The role of a writer is not to say what we all can say, but what we are unable to say.” ~ Anais Nin

“The writer can choose what he writes about but he cannot choose what he is able to make live.” ~ Flannery O’Connor

Your Creative Gifts Are Resilient

“You do have creative gifts. They are foundational to your personality, your ability to function from day to day and your life callings. Their discovery may have been delayed by hard times or an oppressive childhood. You may have been denied the opportunity to develop your gifts. But creative gifts are resilient and quite patient. They appear when the time is right and can adapt to an ever-changing environment. Even after being undiscovered or neglected for decades, they can walk onstage in brilliant colors and dazzle you and those who are your witnesses.” ~ Vinita Hampton Wright, The Soul Tells a Story

When it comes to writing, I’m a bit of a late bloomer. The reason? Fear. For years, if anyone around me excelled in the arts it simply intimidated me. I dabbled in obscurity. Safe, you know. I journaled, submitted devotionals here and there, and updated the family newsletter. For awhile I sidetracked into culinary challenges and learned to decorate beautiful buttercream and fondant cakes. Call me cake artist!  That was fun but I thought everyone sewed, cooked, decorated, and crafted.  When the kids were young, a world of folk art and tole painting opened up to me, and I painted wood with my acrylics into the night.

Maybe I’ve been blooming all along…

But when I’m not writing, I’m not happy. And while I’m no psychologist, when my mother ridiculed my first writing efforts, that moment shoved my writing dreams down deep. Fear and perfectionism followed me along dark alleys after that, giving me the beat-down:

You’re not as talented as those other folks. You have nothing to say. Why embarrass yourself?    

So God took me on an excavation. When He was done, He spoke through a seasoned writer who looked me in the eye at a writers’ conference, and said, “You’re a good writer. You just need confidence.” Those few words dislodged years of junk. Today I agree with Jeff Goins“My inner life suffers when I do not answer this call to be me.” 

I’m a writer and a relator. Sometimes I run away from this. But to be me, I have to say yes to my writing gift – oh, beautiful resilient gift. Your gift is resilient, too. Sometimes God gives us gifts like this to help us weather life’s storms. In the unwrapping, we help others weather their storms, too.

Jeff’s words pushed the door of my creative cage wide open. Two thoughts flew out:

1.  To write or create is not selfish, but sacred, because God is in this.

2. It’s not too late, no matter our age. Remember what Vinita Hampton Wright said about our creative gifts?

They appear when the time is right and can adapt to an ever-changing environment. Even after being undiscovered or neglected for decades, they can walk onstage in brilliant colors and dazzle you and those who are your witnesses.

It’s your time. Step through the doubt. If you faltered last week, begin again. Open your gift. Scribble a few thoughts. Don’t be surprised if you stumble forward into a life of great delight and purpose. ♥

What’s holding you back?

When a Month of Writing Goes to Pot

My apologies to January – a cold series of rough textured days. To write, I have to think. To think, I need quiet. To have quiet, I desperately need event-free days. No drama, no crises –  just a few bad-hair days to keep me humble. Kidding, of course, but heavy news really kicks my butt.

Still, you need inspiration. Tell me if this stirs anything in you:

“It isn’t so easy to write what’s on our mind and let people in on our thoughts. We fear reprisals; we fear looking bad; we fear having to defend what we’ve said. It isn’t so easy to write what’s on our mind even if we are  just writing in our journal: there is so much that we are keeping hidden from ourselves and our natural frankness is defeated by our defensiveness.” ~ Eric Maisel, Ph.D., A Writer’s Space

Do you censor yourself? Do you worry what others may think if you speak your mind? I wonder how much of what we don’t write is due to fear.

Begin Again

Light for the Creative SoulNo matter what happened to you last year, or even last week – today you are free to begin again. Today looms with possibility. Today you have another invitation to write about the things that matter.

Write to articulate your passions. Write to encourage or inform. Write because it’s in your blood and brings you  joy.

Just write.

Here are two articles to get you started. I’m learning it’s time to put the dream in motion and walk out my calling. What about you?

The Difference Between Dreaming and Starting
Starting Over: A Manifesto on Being Yourself

May You Experience a New Year Filled with the Joy of Creativity

Happy NEW Year, friends.

As we turn that calendar page together, I encourage you to pursue your God-given dreams – even if your dreams have lain dormant; even if the fear of inadequacy has muffled your creative instincts.  Need a fresh start?  So do I.  This New Year holds unlimited possibilities if we’ll let God build a little momentum. Here’s a little New Year’s hope for us all:

“God is looking for people through whom He can do the impossible. What a pity when we plan only the things we can do by ourselves.”  ~ A.W. Tozer

“He  enlightens us to such opportunities both by inspiring new dreams, and by resurfacing old ones that have long lain dormant.” ~ M. Blaine Smith

“For my part I know nothing with any certainty, but the sight of the stars makes me dream.” ~ Vincent van Gogh

Why You Shouldn’t Bother with Writing Resolutions This Year

Keep On Dreaming by M. Blaine Smith

Defining Visions for Our Life Sometimes Come When Our Foundations are Shaken

A Chance to Start Life Over Again 

The Post That Never Happened: Rx for Harried Minds During Advent”

“Reflect upon your present blessings, of which every man has plenty; not on your past misfortunes, of which all men have some.” ~ Charles Dickens

I’ve always liked this Charles Dickens quote but it slightly annoys me at the moment. Advent is over, and my post “Rx for Harried Minds During Advent” never happened. It accumulated dust in the draft folder while I knocked out my to-do list – too harried to write or take my own advice. Oh, the irony of it all.

Now December sighs her last breath; I scurry to blog.

Staring at the Nativity, I blink with mixed emotion. A Hallmark Christmas it was not. In real life there are empty chairs around the table, frayed nerves, unfulfilled longing, misunderstanding.  We abide, but we feel, and God knows this. Somewhere between the holly-jolly and the tinsel, I exhale another year’s longing, beneath the rubble of dashed expectation.

Holiday letdown. Happens to us all…for different reasons.  To welcome the New Year, we must let go of the old, and the only way around grief is through it.

I’m ready to flip the calendar – can you tell?

If you’re shuffling through the holiday aftermath, it’s okay. We’ll get through it together. No sense stuffing what’s real; we’ll process and move on. Here’s a few helpful articles to help do just that:

The Best Way to Overcome the Post-Christmas Blues

The Day After Christmas: A Lament

Do you get the blues after Christmas? How do you deal with it?

Pondering Gratitude

“Gratitude unlocks the fullness of life. It turns what we have into enough, and more…It can turn a meal into a feast, a house into a home, a stranger into a friend. It turns problems into gifts, failure into successes, the unexpected into perfect timing, and mistakes into important events.” ~ Melody Beattie

Preparations for our little family feast swept my strength away. I’m tired, physically; emotionally, I’m swollen with gratitude. Thanksgiving stirs my spirit but I’ve taken for granted the grace I’m daily given.

Breathe in, breathe out – all is grace. Realization deepens as I put the dishes away.

I begin…again…to count my blessings. Yet I avoid the news knowing full well that pain and suffering run rampant in too many lives. Hardship touches even the periphery of family and friends, and it’s hard to give thanks unless the Spirit moves. Yet I must, and He does – again and again.

I wrap a squash casserole and think of sisters, cloistered away in poverty. I flush my toilet and think of those without running water. I sweep leaves off my front porch and remember those without mobility or use of limb. I sit down to a cup of hot tea and know that somewhere a person is thirsty and cold. The Spirit speaks; I listen.

To say I’m thankful for conveniences seem shallow in light of the poverty of spirit in the world. I have troubles, yet I am spoiled. Suddenly I long to drop complaining from my vocabulary.

Awareness of all I’ve been given rises up. “The solid and simple things of life are brought into clear focus,” as Charles Swindoll once said.

And counting myself a little more focused, I know, without a shadow of doubt, I am blessed.

Reflections on Artful Beauty & the Imagination

“Artful beauty is not a low priority for God. He loves it and filled His universe with it, and He imbues beauty and the interpretation of it in art with messages for us. Messages about sin, redemption, provision, and grace.” ~ J. Scott McElroy, Finding Divine Inspiration

“Is your imagination stayed on God or it starved? The starvation of the imagination is one of the most fruitful sources of exhaustion and sapping in a worker’s life. If you have never used your imagination to put yourself before God, begin to do it now. It is no use waiting for God to come; you must put your face away from the face of idols and look unto Him and be saved. Imagination is the greatest gift God has given us and it ought to be devoted entirely to Him. If you have been bringing every thought into captivity to the obedience of Christ, it will be one of the greatest assets to faith when the time of trial comes, because your faith and the Spirit of God will work together.” ~ Oswald Chambers, My Utmost for His Highest

“…Is the whole of life visible to us, or do we in fact know only the one hemisphere before we die? For my part I know nothing with any certainty, but the sight of the stars makes me dream, in the same simple way as I dream about the black dots representing towns and villages on a map.” ~Vincent van Gogh

“Art can warm even a chilled and sunless soul to an exalted spiritual experience. Through art we occasionally receive – indistinctly, briefly – revelations the likes of which cannot be achieved by rational thought. It is like the small mirror of legend: you look into it but instead of yourself you glimpse for a moment the Inaccessible, a realm forever beyond reach. And your soul begins to ache…” ~ Aleksandr Solzhenitsyn


Creating Jewelry, Loving People: Beadiful Soul Give-a-Way

Unakite semiprecious stones

“Jewelry takes people’s minds off your wrinkles.” ~Sonye Henie

I’m itching to write but the creativity bug’s gone all ‘beady’ on me this week:-)  Just a few photos of recent creations – hoping to finish custom orders this week so I can blog my heart out and work on the art journal. Stay tuned for writerly inspiration, art obsessions, and personal heart-renderings…maybe even a few Open House Chronicles, counting down the days of gratitude. I love this time of year!

Miscellany, Contests, & Fun:

If you’re in the Atlanta area, allow me to introduce you to Hugghins Photography: A Portrait Boutique. Ashley Hugghins is a gifted photographer with a superb eye for family/newborn/maternity/kids portraits in natural settings. Her work is fabulous and she’s in the Atlanta area, so check her out! This week she’s featured my jewelry-making as part of her “Local Ladies” business series. Hope you’ll read the interview and enter the giveaway. You’ll be captivated by Ashley’s beautiful photography site – wait and see!

To register for the GIVEWAY, be sure to leave a comment at the end of the post. I’d love for you to win one of the two prizes – a pair of SNOWMAN Earrings or a BANGLE bracelet.  Remember, it’s easy-peasy:

1. Just hop over to Facebook and “like” Beadiful Soul and Hugghins Photography. Leave each of us a comment.

2. Check out my interview at Hugghins Photography and leave a comment.  That’s it!

There will be TWO winners this Friday (11/11/11). I hope it’s YOU!

Fan the Writing Flame! Encouraging the Writing Life

“Inspiration comes from God, and the voice that tells us that what we are doing is not any good (will never sell, will never be published, is trivial, is lousy, is keeping us from our real responsibilities) comes right out of the pits of hell.” ~ Janice Elsheimer, author of The Creative Call

A friend called recently to say she had no time to write and, in fact, questioned her writing abilities. She’s brilliant, mind you – inspiring and talented. She just needed encouragement. But her confession sprung like an arrow to my own heart, bringing with it the piercing of a life passing all too quickly. What happens when we don’t get to write? For me, it’s a quiver in my liver. Don’t laugh – I get all heartsick when words won’t flow. Friends and family may not understand, so I turn to other writers. Writers know the value of a listening ear, gentle affirmation, and meaningful encouragement with firm reminders.

Has your well run dry? See it as temporary. Has your inspiration left for the evening? Fan the flame! Sometimes all we need is to remember why we write in the first place. You’re not alone. Here are a few random quotes from a few random writers, each sharing her particular thoughts about this curious writing way of life. Their books are inspiring, too.

Let me know which quote speaks to you these days.  ♥

Nuggets from Julia Cameron, The Right to Write:

“I write to tell myself the truth, the whole truth and nothing but the truth. I write, not to make art, but to make sense. I try my hand, as now, at a poem. I am looking for honesty, not artistry.”

“We are often so busy wanting to have a life as a writer that we forget that we have a life to write about.”

“Writing is about getting something down, not about thinking something up.”

“Sanity in writing means writing with relative ease and fluidity. It means writing from a full well and not an empty one.”

Nuggets from Betsy Lerner, The Forest for the Trees:

“Indeed, the great paradox of the writer’s life is how much time he spends alone trying to connect with other people.”

“The natural writer is the one who is always writing, if only in his head – sizing up a situation for material, collecting impressions.”

“Writing demands that you keep at bay the demons insisting that you are not worthy or that your ideas are idiotic or that your command of the language is insufficient. But if you feel you need to seek advice as to what you should be writing, you are probably not ready to write.”

“Writing is a calling, and if the call subsides, so be it. It may return in greater force the next time around.”

“If as a child you gravitated toward books and kept diaries or made up stories, it speaks to an inherent aptitude for language.”

“When writers say they have no choice, what they mean is: Everything in the world conspired to make me quit but I kept going.”

Nuggets from Vinita Hampton Wright, The Soul Tells a Story:

“Good writers practice and study and practice some more. They may not call it practice – they may simply keep writing, day after day – but in fact they are practicing every time they write.”

“I believe our creative gifts are given to us for many reasons. One purpose is our own healing.”

“As a writer I know that nothing really happens until I write. Now I may write for hours or days before what I write turns into anything meaningful. But I have to write for all those hours in order to arrive at the hour in which the “inspired” writing happens.”

“Creative work teaches you to pay attention, and this is something that few people do well or often.”

“Faith figures into creative work at every step. You say yes to the work, trusting that you are in some way called to it.”

Nuggets from Janice Elsheimer, The Creative Call:

“Our gifts are not from God to us, but from God through us to the world.”

“If we have neglected to develop and use the talents God has given us, we feel incomplete, unfulfilled, unfinished, even depressed. We are ‘like new wineskins ready to burst.”

“God wants us to act with hopeful hearts, not to continually put off working towards our heart’s desires, not to postpone our artistic development and feel frustrated and empty as a result.”

“The fear of not being ‘good enough’ can keep us from using our talents and gifts, especially if those gifts have lain dormant for quite a while.”

“If we practice the discipline of daily writing, of offering to God a “gesture of sincerity” in faith that he desires us to use the gifts he has given us, we will find that God is speaking to us through his Holy Spirit, and that we can learn to hear him.”

“God is in control, and every time you hear the critic telling you that you are wasting your time or being self-centered, you need to turn that message over to the Lord in prayer and rebuke the critic in the name of Jesus. You are fighting for your creative life here, and God is on your side.”

 ”May I be worthy to do it! Lord, make me crystal clear for they light to shine through.” ~Katherine Mansfield